Politeness and characterisation
      On previous pages in this topic we have begun to understand politeness 
        theory. On this page we are going to examine a short extract from P. G. 
        Wodehouse's   
        Come On Jeeves, and explore how our understanding of the two characters, 
        and their relationship, is manifested in terms of how they use politeness 
        strategies.  
      It will be helpful to remember that there are two different kinds of 
        politeness:  
       
         Positive politeness: We feel the need 
          to be praised by others and so it is polite (a) to praise others (e.g. 
          ‘You’re very clever’) and conversely (b) to dispraise 
          oneself (e.g. ‘No, I’m a bit thick really’).  
        Negative politeness: We also like to 
          go about our business in the world unimpeded. It is polite (a) to ease 
          the path of others and so (b) make life more difficult for ourselves 
          in easing the path of others.  
       
      Note that you can be badly behaved by doing the opposite of what the 
        politeness principles suggest (e.g. praising yourself or making others 
        go out of their way to ease your own path). Try it with your friends, 
        and see the reactions you get! 
      
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